Infinity House

A big hello and a warm hug to all my lovely readers out there!

To start with, apologies for being super late in updating. Looks like lethargy got the worst out of the writer in me. Sorry for keeping you guys waiting and thanks a ton for all the patience. Let’s not keep you waiting anymore. So chop chop with the work!

Well, how about starting today’s talk with a question? Sounds strange? But one thing is guaranteed, that the wait is worth it!

How many of us heard the suggestion ‘Give it some time. It heals everything.’? Definitely, all of us, at some point of time in life. Come on, let’s be honest! Be it from your soul sister or your brother from another mother. Now let’s talk about when does this line which sounds utterly dramatic but brutally true rolls out of someone’s tongue.

Hardships of life are like storms. They come unannounced and turn one’s life upside down, a One Eighty degrees turn of your life that makes you feel like it’s a punch in your gut but eventually it makes you think maybe it was worth it! These hard times are such blood sucking monsters which leave only when they break the person successfully or feel the person is tough to be broken.

Blessed are those who know how to deal with changing situations and tackle the pain and heal themselves. Rest of the clan learn from the experience, emerge out with scars and bruises and wear them like medals over the skin.

Lately, a lot of people have been talking to me about the difficulties and hard times they’ve been facing and going through. And seeing the number of people was quite surprising. A lot of us, or let me rephrase it, all of us have our own trunk load of problems.

One of the most courageous decision one could take is to let go of that one aspect of life, be it something or someone, which hurts your heart and soul. The person who conquers this, is a winner already, because accepted or not, the things that effect us, positively or negatively, are the ones whom we also love and value the most. So letting go of something we love for making life worth living is, oh boy! The most difficult thing if you ask me.

When people say time heals everything, it actually does. But it comes with its own terms and conditions. Which is, time heals anything and everything untill you move along with it parallely! There’s no point in seeking comfort by running away. Because that comfort, either ways, is going to be temporary. Instead face the worst nightmare for once and for all and let go of it forever. Cry over the demons over night and don’t ever let tears roll down about it ever again in life. Stop being a coward by getting scared of demons underneath your bed. Instead, conquer the demons within you and emerge out like a winner. Be your own knight in shining armour!

Cutting down completely when you know it’s for your own good is not something wrong. Infact, keeping things or people hanging just to protect them from getting hurt is even more hurtful. That being said, In the quest of being sweet and good to everyone, don’t hurt yourself and take the scars in order to protect others. Let go of stuff, though that hurts initially, but like it’s said and proven, Time heals everything!

There definately comes a day when you’ll feel turning the page was so much worth it because what comes next is an entire book more than a page you were stuck on.

So I would now conclude by saying it’s not easy to heal unless you WANT to heal and work on it. Rest is all on time and people whom you matter. These two aspects act like a lubricant and make things easy.

Untill the next post, keep smiling and stay safe.

Spread love, spread peace 🙂